Thursday, July 8, 2010

should I?

So I was reading today's post over at untiligetmarried.com, and the blogger talked about women going for be the guy that doesn't call and ignoring the guy that does. This of course got me to thinking.

For a couple of days I have been thinking about what may have happened with Jersey, see a few post below. Well after a third brief text conversation, he did not hit me back up. While this is OK, (maybe I should just chuck it up) I find myself thinking, why hasn't he text back...or even more...should I text him( the last "conversation" ended with me tell him to hit me up later, meaning the ball was in his court...right?). Would I look like the thirsty girl if I were to hit him up with a hi, or would I look like the girl that may be interested in him....idk.

Then after reading the post, I thought about what happened with 6'9. He consistently called me almost everyday and I did not answer his calls. Granted, I no longer wanted to talk to him because of the strange "date" we had, and if it had happened to be good I probably would have continued to see him. However, I could have given him another shot, or at least answered his call and not have placed him in the thirsty box. He was obviously very into me, where as Jersey is not(or so I think).

Well, I will hopefully learn from this, and next time I would give it another shot, maybe....

But here is my question, should I hit up Jersey?

1 comment:

  1. DON'T CALL!! If a man wants to speak to you he'll jump over a wall to do just that

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