Two post ago, I explained that I plan to meet up and have my first date with Jersey that did not involve other people. He asked me to cook, I don't cook on Saturdays but I said maybe, depending on how the date goes. Friday comes and I ask( all via text) what were the plans for Saturday. Shorty says I thought you were going to cook. Ummmmm.
So basically shorty made no plans for us....despite him saying he wanted to show me a good time. smdh Its not like I was expecting much, drinks or even a movie would have been fine. I don't seem to understand. Why ask someone out, and not make plans. If you want to wing it, then say that,I would have no problem.
I moved past that, we tried to make plans the day of but it never worked out...but this Friday we have plans to go to a party....I am sure he will know other people there so I will bring one girlfriend along that he has not meet(get to that in a minute) just in case I get ditched.....which will really " grind my gears"(cue family guy).
Now here's the reason why I have to bring a friend that he does not know. The past two times that I have meet up with him, he has been trying to hook his friends up with my friends. That is all he seemed to be concentrated on. Even on the day we were suppose to meet up, he asked if one of my friends planned to join because his friend wanted to see her again. Like is he serious. He does not even know me yet, why is he not focusing on trying to get to know me instead of hooking up his friends with girls that are clearly not interested.
I just don't understand. That has been a turn off, but being who I am, I am going to give it another shot. Despite trying to be Mr. Matchmaker, he did introduce me to a nice spot. If he ask me if my friends want to talk to his friends again, I will have a problem. Because that is not cool....at all.
I hope we can finally have a first date...
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